Introvert as a nature---good or bad??

We all as an individual are unique. Everyone on this earth is special with a specific purpose to be fulfilled. May you be short or tall, fat or thin, pretty or ugly, introvert or an extrovert, every individual is unique and special in his/her own way.I have taken this topic because some people feel that being an introvert is a disorder. Well its not.

Introvert personality dosen't resemble shyness.. Introvert people dosen't like much attention by nature and shy people are afraid of attention. Introverts are less of public and more of private. Enjoy time alone, prefer making less but deep relations instead of many goofy ones,are good listeners, calm, self aware when entering a crowd and think before speak.They are quiet thoughtful in nature. Its good but on the negative side of this, they waste a lot of time thinking what others feel about them even if other people don't care. They may pretend that "they don't give a damn" but on the inside its totally different. Introverts can be social people but they express less about how they feel. Social networking sites are the place for introverts in 21st century, where introverts are free from the formalities of social conduct and are more comfortable blogging about personal feelings which they would never otherwise express. Introvert people are beautiful in their own way. By directing their energies inwards, they are attached to spiritualism and are more creative.

I am an introvert and its normal to me.Because the society is more bent towards the extrovert people dosent mean we should feel weak or inferior. We can make great differences if we follow our heart and not rely on others for what is right or wrong.

                                        Never try to be what you are not!!!

"EXPECTATIONS"----->leads to Disappointment.

Hi friends..

This is my second post and the reason i have chosen the above topic is because its hovering over us in our daily lives and its very necessary to be understood to lead a happy life. 

In our daily lives we try to blame others for everything like starting from the morning, "she didn't wake me for test", "the bus was not on time", "he didn't called me, he should have", "he should have done this for me", she should have understood me".. Why it is that every time we expect from others to do everything for us. If at some point of time we did something for someone, then we always want that to be returned. We want everything to move in the manner we like but its not so always. Sometimes it happens that things dont go as we thought, and that is what lead to anger and disappointment in turn. The more we expect from others, the more we are opening ourselves to being disappointed.That dosen't mean we stop expecting. Keep the bar of expectations high as they lead to good results but dont attach it to the outcome i.e keep up the good work but dont expect the outcome to be the same as you thought. As human beings its in our blood to expect things from others, we cant be perfect. But we can make a move.. The next time you get disapponted, just think that the reality didn't came up as you expected. Try to understand the relationship between expectation and disappointment. Just strike it off by saying "so what??" and get over it.

            "If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you;

                      that is the principal difference between a dog and a man."

                                                             - Mark Twain

Are marriages really made in heaven???

Hey friends..

First of all welcome to my blog and thanks a lot for taking out time for visiting the blog. Well i want to confess that i am not much of a writer and this is my first blog.. So please ignore any mistakes..

Well now coming to the point.. The topic of discussion for today is "marriage".

"Marriages are made in heaven".. a famous saying, i.e when two persons are tied in a knot, it is considered as a wish of god. Marriage is an institution where one spends the rest 2/3rd's of one's life. God created all the people as equal without any biasness. So shouldn't it be the prime right of the person to choose the one who is right for himself/herself? Government have made the rules by defining the minimum age for marriage, considering the people's ability to make the right decision about their life. So why everyone has to oppose this? Why this so called 'society' make its own rules. When the primary power i.e 'GOD' who everybody believes in have'nt created any bars amongst thy people then why this society has to? Everybody believes in one or the other religion and in every religion its mentioned that 'GOD is ONE' and no religion teaches to discriminate between people. Then why this society has to create all the differences. Religion, caste,sex and what not. We have to leave old myths and traditons and embarce this beautiful life that god has given us.What is the purpose of getting educated if we cannot leave a mark on this society and fight for what is right. We people have to raise this issue because its important and already many of us have faced the circumstances of such differences. So why not raise a voise against the ignorant masses of this earth. I am doing my effort and i welcome your comments on this.