"EXPECTATIONS"----->leads to Disappointment.

Hi friends..

This is my second post and the reason i have chosen the above topic is because its hovering over us in our daily lives and its very necessary to be understood to lead a happy life. 

In our daily lives we try to blame others for everything like starting from the morning, "she didn't wake me for test", "the bus was not on time", "he didn't called me, he should have", "he should have done this for me", she should have understood me".. Why it is that every time we expect from others to do everything for us. If at some point of time we did something for someone, then we always want that to be returned. We want everything to move in the manner we like but its not so always. Sometimes it happens that things dont go as we thought, and that is what lead to anger and disappointment in turn. The more we expect from others, the more we are opening ourselves to being disappointed.That dosen't mean we stop expecting. Keep the bar of expectations high as they lead to good results but dont attach it to the outcome i.e keep up the good work but dont expect the outcome to be the same as you thought. As human beings its in our blood to expect things from others, we cant be perfect. But we can make a move.. The next time you get disapponted, just think that the reality didn't came up as you expected. Try to understand the relationship between expectation and disappointment. Just strike it off by saying "so what??" and get over it.

            "If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you;

                      that is the principal difference between a dog and a man."

                                                             - Mark Twain